"Thinking about the beauty of being what you were meant to be, and achieving what you were sent to achieve".
Life, is a constant learning experience that it is mean to teach us how to live and love in a way that bring up happiness and plenitude in each stage... There is no grace on living each one of those stage without Enjoying and Sharing your blessings with the world!
I believe that most of the fights that human being embrace during their adult age, are just a way to feel that they are in control of their life. We see people around us, including us, in the constant selection between activities of work, hobbies, residences, schools, professional carriers, clothes, churches, restaurants, and even friends and any other "thing" that we want or need to match our style.
Somehow in the line of time we have to recognize this behavior, as one simple manifestation of the divine feeling of being in charge of our life and being able to choose what make us happy, simply by allowing ourselves to fulfill our desires or satisfy our needs. Then, later, but in the same line of time, we will need to reflect if the fight is worthy, or if the experience is just A WAY that bring us up to a new knowledge, a new skill, a different and interesting subject or a new perspective of life just for the purpose of expanding our vision.
For good reasons we can admit that we are not alone in the edification of our life. We can, if we want to, listen, contemplate, feel, and recognize that God is with us, he knows us, and he is always sending helpers to us.
Will you receive it and accept it?
How would you recognize "anything" as a blessing or not?
Will you just turn around if it does not look like what you have preconceived?.
Think again, reflect on it. Major changes in life, always bring conflicts. It is just a normal stage of the process of growing in some dimension. Considering our own limitations sometime opens a window to see well. Do not be afraid. Avoid being just reactive in front of the challenges you have now. Pro activeness it's a good skill to learn, and understanding that we are not always in full control of what is happening, it's most of times, a good thing to do, when you trust God and you are open to receive his blessings . We are normally put into circumstances that only help us to achieve or overcome SOMETHING we need to, in order to keep growing and enriching our lives. I am not saying, we have have to accept what ever comes as good...But I want to highlight the importance of good discermment.
Now, it's always our choice, from which other perspective would you like to see it?
I have learned, that we, all, are here for a wonderful reason, don't you think?
See around you, contemplate your past, imagine what could be your future without all the people that have touched your life in a certain way. It is interesting to reflect on how they appeared into our lives. Where were you, what was happening into your life?
There are many questions that help us to clarify and find the purpose of people in our life and vise verse. But all of the answers we will find, will help us to realize that even though, some people stay with us, and many of them leaves, all of them have taken good part of us as well as we can feel grateful for all the blessings they have brought into our life.
Would you say this its not worthy? that, It takes too much from you?...
I can assure you it is worthy. See your whole life, and find one simple but valuable thing that you have achieved without an effort or sacrifice of your part...I would say you won't find it.
